Zentangle Is Not So Zen

Last night I visited the “Official Zentangle” website looking for a tangle pattern. Unlike a few years ago, when I first landed on the site, I don’t find it to be a creative repository any longer. I couldn’t find the pattern I was looking for – or any other patterns for that matter – using the search function. I ended up clicking through to their blog because I’ve been lucky in the past to find old posts about patterns there. What I found instead was something that confirmed my belief about the “we’re here to share the Zen gift we’ve created, with you” philosophy the “founders of Zentangle” are always spewing: It’s not a gift. It’s a business.

Instead of finding anything creative – that wasn’t for sale –, what piqued my interest was a recent blog post the self-titled “founders of Zentangle” have up on the site. In this particular post, they are publicly shaming and bullying someone for having a similar idea to their own that monetizes doodling. If you’re at all interested you can read the ridiculous nonsense that does little to veil their contempt for someone doing as they have, posted on their site by clicking this link to the post, which they actually titled “Seriously?…

I can’t believe I’m investing any energy in this but, to start, I need to say that I find this situation the “founders of Zentangle” have posted about SHAMEFUL, on their part and on the part of their followers who are participating in the bullying. Second, the “founders of Zentangle” don’t have the right to decide who can or cannot anoint themselves as experts of doodling. Publicly shaming this woman (Ina Sonnenmoser) for trying to earn a living the way she chooses and encouraging members of your Certified Zentangle Teacher (CZT) clique to pile shame on her is not a flattering look for you, nor is it very Zen.

To the “founders of Zentangle” (Rick and Maria), I’d like to say, you’ve had a good run in your attempt to copyright and ritualize doodling. However, no one has a monopoly on doodling. I think you need a reminder that doodling has been around forever and a day. I agree that doodling can be meditative and I often write on my blog about using it to distract my focus from my chronic pain and I’ve also written about how I use objects I have available to do zentangle according to the way you’ve specified, which I view as an unnecessary limitation. If someone else has invested the time to come up with a way to monetize drawing lines on paper, more power to them. I’m certain there are many more people than Ina out there – including those whom you have anointed as experts in your method – doing the same.

I also have to call out Rick and Maria, for their blatant hypocrisy. For anyone reading my post who wants to see how ancient some of the patterns they claim to be their originally conceived patterns are, there are books available in the public domain from as early as the 17th century that show you the origins of all these patterns (see images of pages below). Look up topics such as decorative design, ornament, ancient ornament, nature in ornament, ornament from specific cultures, and pattern design. There are volumes of material available to learn how to create your own combination of patterns or how to develop them from things in your environment.

Moreover, how many times have Rick and Maria and members of their “CZT family” done what they call “deconstructing a pattern” from an object or artwork to create a tangle. They do this without a moment’s thought of giving credit to the craftspeople who worked tirelessly to create it in the first place. News flash, just because you change a few lines (as you point out to Ina) doesn’t make something original or yours.

As Rick said, sunshine is the best disinfectant. There’s nothing Zen about publicizing this feud. What you’ve shone a light on is the true motive behind Zentangle, which is the same as any business: Making lot$ of money. This is clearly visible in the redesign of your website that no longer shares much free information about how to draw the patterns, whereas, ironically Ina’s site does. You were just hoping your followers would continue to pay thousands of dollars to you, instead of another individual or company, every year to become certified in your “method” of doodling; and more importantly, that people would forever be blinded by your phony claim that you’re giving them a gift.

Finally, for all the Certified Zentangle Teachers and followers participating in bullying Ina Sonnenmoser, take a step back and seriously look at the toxic behaviour the founders of this supposed Zen method are encouraging and taking pleasure in you acting out to support them.

 

A Handbook of Ornament – Franz Sales Meyer – 1849 – p22 **Click image to see the book**

A Handbook of Ornament – Franz Sales Meyer – 1849 – p27 **Click image to see the book**

Iroha-biki Moncho-Book of Crests and Designs – Kikuo Tanaka – 1800 – p24 **Click image to see the book**

 

Note: In the comments, I’ve made some additional observations about the cost vs. the benefits of becoming a Certified Zentangle Teacher (CZT)

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I Have To Come Clean

Yesterday, I asked my friend U for a rain check on plans we made to go see a movie. It was the second time in the space of a month; but I had to. This time it was because my feet were swollen to the point of not being able to wear shoes – not even flip-flops – again. The previous opt-out was a few weeks earlier after I committed, with the best intentions, to attend one of her art exhibits. I had an appointment earlier that same day and experience has taught me that my body can’t handle more than one event or activity for a few hours in a day; any more than that will be followed by days, if not weeks, of increased pain.

Sadly, in the nearly five years since my illness started, I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve asked U to reschedule or canceled our plans altogether. Similarly, I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve rescheduled or canceled plans with other friends and family members; some of whom no longer bother making the effort to do things with me. Mind you, the arrival of my illness alone was enough to cause some people to disappear from my life early on. As I got ready to take a shower late last night, it dawned on me as I sat naked in my bathroom, that at the rate I’m going, I won’t have many friends left to reschedule or cancel plans with if I don’t come clean about the state of my life. So here I am, writing what amounts to an open letter to all my friends and my family members about what my version of living with a chronic illness looks like.

I know I talk about feeling pain, but maybe I still haven’t explained it clearly: This illness causes me to feel high levels of pain every minute of every day in almost every part of my body below my belly button. To cope with this pain I take large quantities of high-dose opioid-based pain medications (narcotics) six times each day. Even in these large doses, these opioid-based medications don’t come close to stopping the pain. However, without them, moving around or walking upright would be near impossible feats for me to accomplish. Unfortunately, because of these pain medications, I also have added medical complications from expected side effects and other symptoms – like the swelling in my legs and feet – that continue to defy explanation.

The truth is: nothing I’ve been prescribed controls my pain. In fact, my doctors can’t explain why – after multiple surgeries and many treatments that failed – I still have such high levels of pain nearly five years after this all started. Lucky for me, these doctors are all still invested in trying to figure it out. Although, that’s little comfort to me at times; especially when the pain flares up beyond a level where anyone should be expected to cope.

As a result, all I can do is manage my life in a way that minimizes pain flare-ups and the worsening of any of the side effects. That’s what I’ve been trying to do – and learn how to do better – with the different programs and treatments I’ve been participating in these last couple of years. The problem, I’m only now realizing, is that I haven’t been communicating with all of you what I need to do to manage things and take better care of myself or how much help I need to do it. The latter part of that statement is probably the most important: I haven’t told you that I need help taking care of myself.

Since my focus has been on trying not to be a bother or not making you worry about me, I haven’t been telling you the truth. Most days – even when I sound upbeat during phone calls or I add smiley-face emojis to text messages – I’M IN AGONY. Because of the pain I may not have slept more than a few hours in the previous 24 hours; I may not have taken a shower that day or the day before. I may not have cooked a proper meal in days, I may have a pile of dirty dishes in my kitchen sink or piles of clothes on my bed that I need to put away, and I may have put off doing my laundry again so the baskets continue to fill.

With all of this, and probably more, going undone because I’m in pain, when I ask for a rain check or cancel plans, it’s for the same reason: The pain or other symptoms are at levels I can’t cope with. Or I’m trying to manage them so they don’t reach levels where I won’t be able to move for days, or worse case land me in the hospital Emergency Room where all they can do for me is add extra doses to the pain medications I’m already taking.

Rescheduling or canceling is never because I don’t share the same desire to spend time with each of you. It’s never because I don’t respect your time or value the effort you go to when you plan something for us to do together. The relationships I have with each of you is unique, but that doesn’t mean I don’t owe each of you the same degree of respect and honesty. I don’t know if I’ve shared too much or not enough, but I do know that this is the truth about what I’m living with and I hope each of you will continue to stick around, so we can make more plans I might need rain checks for…

 

The Toll of Opioid Pain Medications

Reading this article a few days ago, gave me pause: Opioid death toll in Canada nearly 4,000 last year, new data show.

I’ve been taking opioid-based (narcotic) pain medications since the first day of the hospitalization for my illness, almost five years ago. After my admission to the hospital emergency room, the first thing the ER doctor recommended to give me for my pain was Oxycodone. My pain was so intense that I could barely talk, but I refused it because I knew taking it would cause me to become incoherent and prevent me from clearly explaining what I was experiencing. The doctor tried to convince me to take it by telling me that I needed it to control the pain so she could examine me.

I knew I couldn’t tolerate even the gentlest touch without some kind of medication to dull the pain. However, I also knew the risks associated with this particular pain medication, which at that time, was already identified as a major culprit at the heart of the opioid epidemic. So taking it, even one time, was not something I wanted to do. The doctor deferred to my concerns and instead gave me a non-opioid medication by injection that kept my mind clear so I could have a lucid conversation about my medical history and current symptoms with her. It also gave me a chance to ask questions about my initial diagnosis and what actions she intended to take to confirm it.

After all the test results came back with a preliminary (and very wrongly assessed) diagnosis, the doctor again recommended that I take the Oxycodone. By that time, I was so exhausted and still feeling such incredible pain that I relented and agreed to take it. I asked her to prescribe the lowest possible dose that would still deliver some pain relief and she ordered it. Unfortunately, even though I was taking it at that low dose, it fogged my mind. It took a great effort to concentrate enough to talk, sit up in bed, or move in general. Everything felt like it was happening around me, in slow motion, and I felt a near total loss of control.

In the following days – in a semi-private room on the surgical ward of the hospital – the doctors continued to prescribe the same low dose of Oxycodone for me. After the third day, I had to demand that they stop giving it to me because of how unable I was to make sense of things unless everyone spoke very slowly and, more importantly, I started hallucinating. The hallucinations were so frightening that during one of them – despite the terrible pain – I got out of bed to search for someone who turned out to be a figment of my drug-distorted imagination. Thankfully, the doctor on-call listened to me and prescribed another opioid-based pain medication I was better able to tolerate; and Oxycodone is now listed on my medical records as a medication that I can NEVER take.

I know that it’s been reported that many of these opioid-related deaths are because of “recreational use” of certain opioids or after a patient has developed an addiction. Still, with the high doses of prescribed pain medications I take now, I’m at risk of developing an addiction or, heaven forbid, accidentally overdosing. Because of these risks, I’m very careful about taking my pain medications exactly as prescribed. I also make sure I pay close attention to any changes in the way my body reacts to these pain medications or whether any of the known, critical side effects suddenly appear: severe dizziness and/or fainting, trouble breathing, unusual drowsiness and/or difficulty waking up, and/or seizures.

Beyond these very real and frightening concerns, I must also think about the longer-term physiological effects of taking opioid-based pain medications. I’ve been taking them in one form or another since this all started, therefore, my liver and kidneys work, and have worked, overtime for nearly five years to process these drugs throughout my body. Because of this, my liver and kidneys get tested regularly to make sure they continue to work within normal levels and won’t add more complications to my already poor health.

There’s also the possibility that the longer I take these opioid-based pain medications that they could, one day, stop working without any warning. Worse still, I could develop a condition where instead of the medications managing my pain they cause me to feel more pain. This is because “taking opioids over a long period of time may in fact increase a patient’s sensitivity to pain (hyperalgesia). This happens because long-term use of opiate painkillers causes a decrease in your ability to tolerate pain and an increase in sensitivity to pain. In fact, people taking opioids long term may keep having pain, or may see their pain increase, long after the original cause of pain has healed.”

These are some of the thoughts and fears I live with every day. With every dose of the opioid-based pain medications, I take to cope with my pain. However, I recognize that although this is my reality, I feel blessed to be alive to have these thoughts and fears.

My heart breaks for anyone who has lost their life to this health crisis and those who have been left to mourn them.